MEET S.T. ELMO.

My Abby has waited a long time to meet her soulmate. About 3 years.

A LONNNNNNNG TIME PEOPLE!


Well, long in the sense that we decided about a week after we met that she needed a man in her life. So,  1098 days [leap day included] is a long time to be waiting and hoping and wishing for something.

With the littlest man in my life not nursing basically even at all, this was the time. It was decided.

Why now? Well the timing just kind of fell into place.
I had my new fave tattoo artist, I had a day where everyone could watch Jaxon, I had money, I had the idea in my head.

Abby Cadavvy was going to get her man.


And here he is:

yes instagram photos. I was too excited to introduce him to the world to wait to take cute little photostudio quality photos.

Here's what I learned in the hour and a half of getting to know ST Elmo.

His name is pronounced ESS. TEE. El-Mo.

He likes being a classy gentleman.

He thinks that everyday is a day to be dressy, and that black socks with sandals and basketball shorts is appalling.

He likes the finer things in life, such as a good scotch, feathers in your cap[or top hat ya know] and mustache wax.

He can pull off the color gold without looking cheap.--which is a skill I must let you know.

He's flexable, and open to change, but isn't pushy.

He likes classical music, as well as heavy metal. But no country please. Unless it's Johnny Cash, because well, duh. 

He likes babies. [OH ALSO JAXON LOVES HIM! HE KEPT STARING ALL NIGHT!]

And best of all?

He loves Abby Cadavvy for who she is. On the inside and the outside.

Now because she's a woman. And us lady folk like to look hot for our men, she may get a mini make-over here soon in the near future.... But that in no way is because ST Elmo has told her to. He wouldn't dream of it. 

He loves her right now and wouldn't change a thing, but come on, what girl doesn't need a little sprucing up after what she's been through??

[I mean even I got a mini makeover recently! She deserves one too!]

I can't wait for Abby and ST to have fun in their courting phase! Oh what fun they'll have: taking pictures and looking cute in outfits for each other! The long walks in the moonlight, and the fun zoo visits they'll have!

And I'll be right along for the ride with them, 

with my soul mate. 

Double dating, forever and always =)